My light worker friends, if you have been on your spiritual journey for at least a few years, you understand very, very clearly what is meant by a divine detour. But I want to talk to you specifically about the purpose of these divine detours. Now, when you are growing, when you are seeking, when you are actively walking the path of divine love to the best of your ability, we are in a continual state of growth, and you can’t grow without adversity. Right? That’s just how it is.
Now, we do have the ability to filter our experience through love and joy and gratitude. And so we will move very rapidly through those experiences. We filter our experience through past trauma, through past pain, and we resonate with fear where we still have those unhealed wounds. And that’s usually where we languish in a divine detour for maybe longer than we would have liked. So I want to specifically address those types of divine detours.
Now, my divine detours that I have followed over and over again in the past year specifically has been the divine detours has been around discernment, and this has been in my personal experience. So in my physical experience of who I interact with, I have been given opportunities to experience dating as well as different friend groups. And I have had to learn the incredibly painful lessons of recognizing when somebody is genuine and authentic, in who they present themselves to be and those who are not, and they’re simply wearing a mask.
And when you walk through this journey, you start shedding masks. Right?
Like, I don’t need that anymore. Don’t need that anymore. Don’t need that anymore. And essentially, you’re this very authentic divine being of love that chooses to express themselves through that frequency. But when we find ourselves in that divine detour, where we’re being presented with a similar lesson over and over again, that is when we really need to take a deep dive.
Okay, so I am an advocate for doing the inner work. We can’t grow if we don’t do the inner work. And the lessons that are the harder ones are the ones we need to pay the most attention to, because that is where the deeper wounding is. Okay, so I come from a past of. So I come from three decades of trauma.
So my path is riddled with trauma and abuse and very harsh Karmic loops that I was trapped in just a lot of pain and suffering. But I have grown so much that I see very clearly the lessons of my suffering. And so when I find myself in this, so part of my wounding is codependency. It’s people pleasing. It’s not feeling like I have a voice.
It’s wanting to give all of myself without boundaries. It’s not understanding the need for boundaries. Okay, so all of those are aspects of my wounding that I have been diligently working on, and I’ve come really far in. But what those divine detours showed me and will show you what my divine detours have shown me are that I still have some wounding in those places, and that I really need to see people where they are and how they are presenting themselves and not ignore those niggling red flags that I am really good at dismissing.
You know what I mean?
Like, when you reach a certain level, you’re so non judgmental, you’re so empathetic, you’re so compassionate that we we project our wholeness we project our divinity onto everybody we need. And so even though they are being authentic in their frequency, meaning you can’t fake a frequency, right? We are choosing to project our own wholeness onto that frequency and mirroring that back to ourselves. So it’s kind of weird to think of like that. But that’s why we will have these detours in the first place.
It is so we can have practice to really see where we’re doing that, and we’re not feeling the distortion of the wound that is really being reflected. So I had the same lesson present itself to me a dozen times, at least in 2019, and I just had to keep experiencing it over and over and over again. And in fact, I’m still experiencing that. That’s why I decided not to date. I am not dating at all for 2020.
That is just my personal decision. But it has presented itself over and over again. And what it shows me is that I’m just not healed enough in those areas to be able to discern the truth of a frequency when it comes to a romantic partner. I still have a father wound that is presenting itself. And that’s okay.
That’s where I’m at. But I have decided that I am done putting myself in a position where I’m gonna be taken on a divine detour that I already know is there. I get it right. I get it. I get where I’m at.
I love myself where I’m at. I totally honor the path that I’m on. I honor the lessons that I brought me here. But I’m just choosing to continue on my path without allowing those divine detours to present themselves in that way for now. Right?
And I am sure I will be given more opportunities to potentially take a divine detour. But what I have noticed since I shifted into this kind of new awareness in 2020 is that those divine detours have gotten really short. Okay? Instead of it being a few months or a few weeks, it’s like a week or even a day where suddenly I’m like, oh, yeah. So that’s not an alignment would love.
And it is removed from my physical experience. So that has been pretty awesome. And I just want you guys to know if you are experiencing a divine detour where it’s a repeated lesson, and it’s annoying as fuck. Okay, let’s just be real here. It’s annoying to do the same lesson over and over and over again.
But don’t be dismissive. Understand that it’s presenting itself for a reason, and that there’s a lesson there, and that when you learn the lesson that divine detour disappears, right? The whole purpose of divine detours is to help us learn, right? But I am ready to just stay on course, stay on the pathway of divine love, and stop getting distracted, because I really feel like divine detours come in when we’re distracted, when we’re not tuning in enough to divine love within, when we’re getting caught up in our external world a little too much, and the desires of the flash a little too much.
And that doesn’t just have to present itself with romantic partnership.
It can be friendships. It can be business partnerships. It can be honestly, anything. So apply it however you wish. But it does usually have to do with an exchange with another human being in some way, because that is the energy that tends to pull us off of our course, pull us off of our path.
And the reason why I say divine detour versus just detour is because when you’re walking the path of love, it doesn’t matter how far you stray. It really doesn’t. You can stray pretty damn far. But if you’re consciously choosing to walk the path of love to the best of your ability, eventually your steps are guided back to your true path. That’s just how that works.
So that’s just how that works. So if you are finding yourself on a divine detour. No worries, my friend. We’ve all been there. Just find a lesson, find the lesson that is presenting itself to you so you can get back on track and keep moving forward.
